"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Adding "girlfriends" of guys you hate on Facebook as friends.

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TheLoner

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Hi,

You know some guys that you hate or don't talk to.
I want to punk them. Would adding their "girlfriends"
to facebook cause a major stir?

Would they find out about this and potentially be upset.

I recently added the girlfriend of "Bradley" to my facebook,
the guy who defriended me from list.

Bradley is on my soccer team.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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plate's_empty

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After they accept your friends request, don't forget to send them pictures of your Dong.
 
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Uncharted

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If you're doing this out of spite it's not very DJ of you. It just kind of shows that it's bothering you.

On the other hand, if you happen to meet a girl who is one of their girlfriends, feel free to flirt with her in person.
 
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TheLoner

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is it ok to add girlfriends of guys on your list
that you never talk to?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Zerro

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Uncharted said:
If you're doing this out of spite it's not very DJ of you. It just kind of shows that it's bothering you.
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Yeah, a Don Juan should be above this sort of childishness.
 
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RedZone

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Personally that sounds weak dude. You're not a girl...you're a man and men don't stir up drama.
 
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