Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Adding "girlfriends" of guys you hate on Facebook as friends.

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TheLoner

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Hi,

You know some guys that you hate or don't talk to.
I want to punk them. Would adding their "girlfriends"
to facebook cause a major stir?

Would they find out about this and potentially be upset.

I recently added the girlfriend of "Bradley" to my facebook,
the guy who defriended me from list.

Bradley is on my soccer team.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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plate's_empty

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After they accept your friends request, don't forget to send them pictures of your Dong.
 
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Uncharted

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If you're doing this out of spite it's not very DJ of you. It just kind of shows that it's bothering you.

On the other hand, if you happen to meet a girl who is one of their girlfriends, feel free to flirt with her in person.
 
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TheLoner

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is it ok to add girlfriends of guys on your list
that you never talk to?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Zerro

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Uncharted said:
If you're doing this out of spite it's not very DJ of you. It just kind of shows that it's bothering you.
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Yeah, a Don Juan should be above this sort of childishness.
 
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RedZone

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Personally that sounds weak dude. You're not a girl...you're a man and men don't stir up drama.
 
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