"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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For the disenfranchised and discouraged black youth who would otherwise find themselves in a life of crime. Too many victims and deaths in Chicago as a result of this.

They need to know they have a future and hope outside of the criminal element in their neighborhoods.
Yes, black police offers are great role models for youth in black communities. Unfortunately, having a role model won’t bring economic or educational opportunities to areas that lack them.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How much do you follow football?

Did you know one of the strategies of the Patriots was to have a positive influence on every aspect of the game?

In every element they wanted a tactical advantage.
It makes sense that they are the biggest cheaters in football. Fvcky Svcky Robbie Kraft is on the 3 owner committee that sets Commissioner Goodell's salary, so he gets away with anything. The Jets fly home from Foxborough with their garbage from the game. They are convinced that the Patriots search through their sideline trash cans.
 

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I don't support reparations. Handing out fish hurts the effort to teaching to fish.

Plan for helping them would start with some augmented role models programs like we just discussed, but also those who are already in the criminal element need to be dealt with. We cannot be afraid of being called racists by dealing with the bad element among the blacks.

On the other side, perhaps we need a program that helps promising youths and their family with the ability flee the criminal element landscape before they become entrapped in it.
Your first point was a fair opinion. Then you followed it up with some highly racial insinuations. Role model programs you describe already exist and are helpful. However, they don’t create educational and economic opportunities. Do you have any other ideas to help the black community?
 

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What racial insinuations?

Educational and economic opportunities cannot exist until we separate the criminal element from their targets (susceptible youth).
The criminal element exists because there are poor educational and economic opportunities. It’s a catch 22. How do you propose we fix it?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I don't know that there is agreement on or enough data to attack the alleged cause.

But I DO know that removing the future generations of potential recruits from the criminal element enivronment, and instead bringing them to a place where they have a chance to succeed, will starve the capability for that criminal element to continue.

This is rhetoric. Solutions have action. What policy would you recommend to help the black community?
 

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This is rhetoric. Solutions have action. What policy would you recommend to help the black community?
So you're just going to completely ignore the fact that poor whites have a much lower crime rate than rich blacks. Economic circumstances don't cause crime.

Here's a fun documentary showing that you regardless of how much blacks receive, they aren't capable of taking care of it. The belgians left blacks with the most advanced infrastructure available at the time. It went to ruins with black independence.

 

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This is rhetoric. Solutions have action. What policy would you recommend to help the black community?
Bring this guy back:



In seriousness, people have to help themselves. Get a job, save your money, invest saved money....like the rest of us.

Reparations. LOL. Who you gonna pay it to? You going to show proof of slavery in your family somehow? Or just blanket cover Compton with cash?? What if somebody else comes in and takes the money?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Nothing for dealing with the cause of the criminal element?
Smollett is the criminal. And all charges have been dropped.

Lesson: if you are black and commit a crime, all charges will be dropped (Smollett). If you are white and DID NOT commit a crime, you will be crucified, like the white teen Nick Sandmann from Kentucky, who was actually harassed by Indians AND black israelites.
 

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I gave you the actions two posts ago.

1. Remove the gang recruitment pool when they are young and help move those families away from the criminal element to where they actually have a chance.
2. Go after the criminal element without fear of being called racists.
How? What does the implementation of these look like? The police? Who is doing the work?
 

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Reparations. LOL. Who you gonna pay it to? You going to show proof of slavery in your family somehow? Or just blanket cover Compton with cash?? What if somebody else comes in and takes the money?
What do you think? This country was built off free labor from African slaves. Why should that work not be compensated?
 

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What do you think? This country was built off free labor from African slaves. Why should that work not be compensated?
Slave labor =/= free labor. Black slaves received free housing, food, clothing and health care. All of these provisions carried a cost for slave and plantation owners.

You seem totally unfamiliar with world history. Blacks enslaved blacks in Africa and still do. The Moors conquered Spain. The Mongols conquered Eastern Europe and made inroads into western Europe.

Blacks and Indians also owned slaves in the US.

By your standards, Muslims and Mongolians owe whites reparations. Blacks and Indians owe reparations today to people who have never been enslaved.
 

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Still waiting for your sources on whites as the greatest mass murderers on earth.

#EyeDontHaveNoEvidence

#EyeJustBeMakinSh1tUp
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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