"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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For the disenfranchised and discouraged black youth who would otherwise find themselves in a life of crime. Too many victims and deaths in Chicago as a result of this.

They need to know they have a future and hope outside of the criminal element in their neighborhoods.
Yes, black police offers are great role models for youth in black communities. Unfortunately, having a role model won’t bring economic or educational opportunities to areas that lack them.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How much do you follow football?

Did you know one of the strategies of the Patriots was to have a positive influence on every aspect of the game?

In every element they wanted a tactical advantage.
It makes sense that they are the biggest cheaters in football. Fvcky Svcky Robbie Kraft is on the 3 owner committee that sets Commissioner Goodell's salary, so he gets away with anything. The Jets fly home from Foxborough with their garbage from the game. They are convinced that the Patriots search through their sideline trash cans.
 

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I don't support reparations. Handing out fish hurts the effort to teaching to fish.

Plan for helping them would start with some augmented role models programs like we just discussed, but also those who are already in the criminal element need to be dealt with. We cannot be afraid of being called racists by dealing with the bad element among the blacks.

On the other side, perhaps we need a program that helps promising youths and their family with the ability flee the criminal element landscape before they become entrapped in it.
Your first point was a fair opinion. Then you followed it up with some highly racial insinuations. Role model programs you describe already exist and are helpful. However, they don’t create educational and economic opportunities. Do you have any other ideas to help the black community?
 

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What racial insinuations?

Educational and economic opportunities cannot exist until we separate the criminal element from their targets (susceptible youth).
The criminal element exists because there are poor educational and economic opportunities. It’s a catch 22. How do you propose we fix it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I don't know that there is agreement on or enough data to attack the alleged cause.

But I DO know that removing the future generations of potential recruits from the criminal element enivronment, and instead bringing them to a place where they have a chance to succeed, will starve the capability for that criminal element to continue.

This is rhetoric. Solutions have action. What policy would you recommend to help the black community?
 

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This is rhetoric. Solutions have action. What policy would you recommend to help the black community?
So you're just going to completely ignore the fact that poor whites have a much lower crime rate than rich blacks. Economic circumstances don't cause crime.

Here's a fun documentary showing that you regardless of how much blacks receive, they aren't capable of taking care of it. The belgians left blacks with the most advanced infrastructure available at the time. It went to ruins with black independence.

 

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This is rhetoric. Solutions have action. What policy would you recommend to help the black community?
Bring this guy back:



In seriousness, people have to help themselves. Get a job, save your money, invest saved money....like the rest of us.

Reparations. LOL. Who you gonna pay it to? You going to show proof of slavery in your family somehow? Or just blanket cover Compton with cash?? What if somebody else comes in and takes the money?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nothing for dealing with the cause of the criminal element?
Smollett is the criminal. And all charges have been dropped.

Lesson: if you are black and commit a crime, all charges will be dropped (Smollett). If you are white and DID NOT commit a crime, you will be crucified, like the white teen Nick Sandmann from Kentucky, who was actually harassed by Indians AND black israelites.
 

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I gave you the actions two posts ago.

1. Remove the gang recruitment pool when they are young and help move those families away from the criminal element to where they actually have a chance.
2. Go after the criminal element without fear of being called racists.
How? What does the implementation of these look like? The police? Who is doing the work?
 

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Reparations. LOL. Who you gonna pay it to? You going to show proof of slavery in your family somehow? Or just blanket cover Compton with cash?? What if somebody else comes in and takes the money?
What do you think? This country was built off free labor from African slaves. Why should that work not be compensated?
 

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What do you think? This country was built off free labor from African slaves. Why should that work not be compensated?
Slave labor =/= free labor. Black slaves received free housing, food, clothing and health care. All of these provisions carried a cost for slave and plantation owners.

You seem totally unfamiliar with world history. Blacks enslaved blacks in Africa and still do. The Moors conquered Spain. The Mongols conquered Eastern Europe and made inroads into western Europe.

Blacks and Indians also owned slaves in the US.

By your standards, Muslims and Mongolians owe whites reparations. Blacks and Indians owe reparations today to people who have never been enslaved.
 

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Still waiting for your sources on whites as the greatest mass murderers on earth.

#EyeDontHaveNoEvidence

#EyeJustBeMakinSh1tUp
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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