Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Its not your job to prove you are LTR material, let the girls worry about this.
Be a benevolent dicatator like @BeExcellent ´s dad
With time and experience you get better at screening and vetting.
I mean yes, but "Before social media".
yes. Women make it clear if they want an LTR. And they’ll aggressively force it on you if you let them.Well...first of all you HAVE to carry yourself with I'd say a GOD COMPLEX. No matter the circumstances, you should NEVER doubt your own worth! No woman should have the "keys to your peace of mind ". Period.
This is a classical chicken/egg dilemma. Men say they cant carry themselves with the GOD complex because they need a "strong woman " . But no strong woman wants you of yoi dont have the right attitude...
Its start with YOU. Let me give you some examples : say this outloud in front of the mirror:
- i am a hard worker
- iam responsible and a man of my word
-i am a pronstar in the sack
- i am a friendly killer who protects his people at all means.
- i am a great cook
- hygiene level HIGh.
- i am a stylistic icon in my own world
- i am an experienced, fairly goodlooking dude with the right mouthpiece.
- I AM A FECKING DON JUAN.
- money dont define me, p00sy won't control me!!
Ect ect ect.
This obviously should all be PRACTICED WITHOUT having a relationship/woman. Hell, a woman will actually keep you AWAY from becoming this man...
I'd say you rather be the chicken than the egg, especially if you're willing to sacrifice yourself as being a egg to satisfy a woman's hunger,rather than cultivating the egg to become a chicken who can bring you many more eggs and chickens....if that makes sense
Lastly, NEVER enter a situationship with a woman with the expectation that it will be a ltr. Its on HER to decide that,not on you!! Keep things light and easygoing.
How would you define irrelevant? Wdym?
