"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Accidentally followed a girls friend on Instagram...****in fat thumbs

Datinglife26

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So I made a thread recently about this girl going from hot to cold a couple of weeks ago. Couldn't figure out why but decided it's best to let it go.

Instagram suggests pages for you to follow and if you aren't paying attention your fat thumbs can send follow requests pretty easily...I'm assuming that's how I hit follow.

Obviously I never noticed this until today when I was clicking through my Instagram settings and there is a "view requests" button..and low and behold this girls friend is on my recently requested follows...ah **** bye..

Instantly unrequested the follow..
Can't figure out when exactly I sent it but if it was around a couple of weeks ago it might explain the whole super hot to super cold with no explanation ****.

Gonna continue to do nothing but be careful with these stupid social media apps.

Anyone else ever do something similar?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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2Rocky

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One way of looking at it is that if she knows you are watching, sometimes you will see her post something you know is meant for you to see.

Don't sweat it too much.
 

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One way of looking at it is that if she knows you are watching, sometimes you will see her post something you know is meant for you to see.

Don't sweat it too much.
Not sure what you mean but I guess no point worrying now.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So I made a thread recently about this girl going from hot to cold a couple of weeks ago. Couldn't figure out why but decided it's best to let it go.

Instagram suggests pages for you to follow and if you aren't paying attention your fat thumbs can send follow requests pretty easily...I'm assuming that's how I hit follow.

Obviously I never noticed this until today when I was clicking through my Instagram settings and there is a "view requests" button..and low and behold this girls friend is on my recently requested follows...ah **** bye..

Instantly unrequested the follow..
Can't figure out when exactly I sent it but if it was around a couple of weeks ago it might explain the whole super hot to super cold with no explanation ****.

Gonna continue to do nothing but be careful with these stupid social media apps.

Anyone else ever do something similar?
I've noticed Instagram sugesting women I met on Tinder or Couchsurfing years ago.

I dont know how it connected us as these are people I haven't spoken to in years and my phone number has changed since then.

There's really zero privacy these days.
 

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Why tf do you care you can follow whoever you want. And I doubt she went cold because of that, in most cases it's other dude in the picture.
 

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Why tf do you care you can follow whoever you want. And I doubt she went cold because of that, in most cases it's other dude in the picture.
I agree brah .

My head was just searching for a reason how she could go from hot to cold so quick.

Possible she is bipolar my ex was hot and cold..girls are nuts these days

Gonna assume it's another guy in the picture and just go about my business. Have a date this weekend with a South American girl with a big ass and some big titties.
 

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Why tf do you care you can follow whoever you want. And I doubt she went cold because of that, in most cases it's other dude in the picture.
Agreed, this is not why she went cold. If she had high interest in you, this would have caused her hamster to spin to the point she may have inquired you about it. The fact she never mentioned it either means her friend never told her, or her interest was already low so it didn't matter to her.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Agreed, this is not why she went cold. If she had high interest in you, this would have caused her hamster to spin to the point she may have inquired you about it. The fact she never mentioned it either means her friend never told her, or her interest was already low so it didn't matter to her.
True..
 
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