"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Accidentally followed a girls friend on Instagram...****in fat thumbs

Datinglife26

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So I made a thread recently about this girl going from hot to cold a couple of weeks ago. Couldn't figure out why but decided it's best to let it go.

Instagram suggests pages for you to follow and if you aren't paying attention your fat thumbs can send follow requests pretty easily...I'm assuming that's how I hit follow.

Obviously I never noticed this until today when I was clicking through my Instagram settings and there is a "view requests" button..and low and behold this girls friend is on my recently requested follows...ah **** bye..

Instantly unrequested the follow..
Can't figure out when exactly I sent it but if it was around a couple of weeks ago it might explain the whole super hot to super cold with no explanation ****.

Gonna continue to do nothing but be careful with these stupid social media apps.

Anyone else ever do something similar?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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2Rocky

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One way of looking at it is that if she knows you are watching, sometimes you will see her post something you know is meant for you to see.

Don't sweat it too much.
 

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One way of looking at it is that if she knows you are watching, sometimes you will see her post something you know is meant for you to see.

Don't sweat it too much.
Not sure what you mean but I guess no point worrying now.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So I made a thread recently about this girl going from hot to cold a couple of weeks ago. Couldn't figure out why but decided it's best to let it go.

Instagram suggests pages for you to follow and if you aren't paying attention your fat thumbs can send follow requests pretty easily...I'm assuming that's how I hit follow.

Obviously I never noticed this until today when I was clicking through my Instagram settings and there is a "view requests" button..and low and behold this girls friend is on my recently requested follows...ah **** bye..

Instantly unrequested the follow..
Can't figure out when exactly I sent it but if it was around a couple of weeks ago it might explain the whole super hot to super cold with no explanation ****.

Gonna continue to do nothing but be careful with these stupid social media apps.

Anyone else ever do something similar?
I've noticed Instagram sugesting women I met on Tinder or Couchsurfing years ago.

I dont know how it connected us as these are people I haven't spoken to in years and my phone number has changed since then.

There's really zero privacy these days.
 

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Why tf do you care you can follow whoever you want. And I doubt she went cold because of that, in most cases it's other dude in the picture.
 

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Why tf do you care you can follow whoever you want. And I doubt she went cold because of that, in most cases it's other dude in the picture.
I agree brah .

My head was just searching for a reason how she could go from hot to cold so quick.

Possible she is bipolar my ex was hot and cold..girls are nuts these days

Gonna assume it's another guy in the picture and just go about my business. Have a date this weekend with a South American girl with a big ass and some big titties.
 

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Why tf do you care you can follow whoever you want. And I doubt she went cold because of that, in most cases it's other dude in the picture.
Agreed, this is not why she went cold. If she had high interest in you, this would have caused her hamster to spin to the point she may have inquired you about it. The fact she never mentioned it either means her friend never told her, or her interest was already low so it didn't matter to her.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Datinglife26

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Agreed, this is not why she went cold. If she had high interest in you, this would have caused her hamster to spin to the point she may have inquired you about it. The fact she never mentioned it either means her friend never told her, or her interest was already low so it didn't matter to her.
True..
 
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