You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Yeah, I forgot about the deli sandwiches.. they've only started having them a few months ago, and I almost never go to McDonald's (or other fast food places).mr_elor said:Not quite.
a general sense though yeah, best to avoid fast food. Not sure if they do McDonalds deli sandwiches where you live, but they're not too bad for you. Kinda similar to Subway though.
I agree, but a lot of people don't get the idea of a cheat meal/day (depending on your diet) and overindulge. It's especially true when they're not on any specific program and just trying to "eat right." Not that it's a bad thing, but it's generally harder to follow something that you're just doing "on your own."Seems pretty reasonable. The key to sticking to a diet is treating yourself now and then, otherwise you won't stick to it.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
acceptable for what purpose???bud_2005 said:What are some acceptable foods from a fast food restaurant if you are lifting? I eat Subway a lot but I get so sick of it too.
So in your awesome opinion it's totally fine for people to eat big macs and woppers all the time?Throttle said:acceptable for what purpose???
the blanket advice people are giving on this thread is mostly useless.
no, next straw man, please.Fred Da Head said:So in your awesome opinion it's totally fine for people to eat big macs and woppers all the time?
fast food as a category is no better or worse than most other types of restaurant food, and processed foods in general.Unless your purpose is to become an average American, fast food should be avoided as much as possible. There is no way that any fitness goal will be reached faster by eating fast food.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
if avoiding starchy carbs.Monster said:1 Sm Chili (toss the crackers)
if you're worried about saturated fat.1 Baked Potato with broccoli and cheese (no sour cream)
the dressings top out at 260 calories per packet.1 Side Garden Salad (hold the dressing)
just out of curiousity, have you ever tried the high fat/protein low carb diet?Throttle said:trying to cut saturated fat is overrated, but you can do more by cooking lean meats & fish at home than any careful selections while eating out.
yes and no. i'm eating these days in a way many would describe as 'low carb' but I consider it a long-term lifestyle choice (reducing sugars & starches to the lowest tolerable amounts without resorting to gimmickry). if you cook at home and learn which veggies you can stand, and balance your fats with oily fish and fish oils, saturated fat isn't nearly the concern it otherwise would be.organizedconfusion said:just out of curiousity, have you ever tried the high fat/protein low carb diet?
that statement is remenisent of that particular way of eating.I tried it for a while,but i wounde up having to eat soo much protein and fat in order to get really full and it made me sick.:nervous:
Yes, not all saturated fats are created equal.Throttle said:trying to cut saturated fat is overrated, but you can do more by cooking lean meats & fish at home than any careful selections while eating out.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.