"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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Acceptable fast food?

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What are some acceptable foods from a fast food restaurant if you are lifting? I eat Subway a lot but I get so sick of it too.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No fast food is acceptable.

At worse, grilled chicken with half the bun and no mayo and that kind of stuff. For Subway, eat wraps or at the very least whole-wheat bread, if you really can't do without.
 

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if you're bulking then don't worry TOO much....the odd cheeseburger (not fries or anything) is alright....if cutting then you shouldn't have any....
but like I said bulking - train to live, don't live to train
 

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i barely eat fast food but if i do..i do it right. I have a nice fat double bacon burger with both types of cheese,exta mayo/lettuce large fries and soda.
If you're gonna induldge ..at least go all out and enjoy it ! guilt free!
 

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Unless you're some scrawny little bastard, you shouldn't have fast food, even when bulking. It won't matter too much if you have a cheeseburger once in a while, but generally if you tell someone "you can have a cheat meal every week" they have a cheat day every week, and if you tell them to have a cheeseburger once in a while, they'll go and have a double bigmac, fries and the largest tub of coke they can find, every other day.

Not saying the OP falls into that category, but it's much safer to give advice that is strict, because people will almost invariably not follow it properly anyway.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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mr_elor said:
Not quite.
a general sense though yeah, best to avoid fast food. Not sure if they do McDonalds deli sandwiches where you live, but they're not too bad for you. Kinda similar to Subway though.
Yeah, I forgot about the deli sandwiches.. they've only started having them a few months ago, and I almost never go to McDonald's (or other fast food places).

Seems pretty reasonable. The key to sticking to a diet is treating yourself now and then, otherwise you won't stick to it.
I agree, but a lot of people don't get the idea of a cheat meal/day (depending on your diet) and overindulge. It's especially true when they're not on any specific program and just trying to "eat right." Not that it's a bad thing, but it's generally harder to follow something that you're just doing "on your own."
 

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Fast food is all crap. :nono: Pack a lunch in the morning.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bud_2005 said:
What are some acceptable foods from a fast food restaurant if you are lifting? I eat Subway a lot but I get so sick of it too.
acceptable for what purpose???

the blanket advice people are giving on this thread is mostly useless.
 

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Throttle said:
acceptable for what purpose???

the blanket advice people are giving on this thread is mostly useless.
So in your awesome opinion it's totally fine for people to eat big macs and woppers all the time?

Unless your purpose is to become an average American, fast food should be avoided as much as possible. There is no way that any fitness goal will be reached faster by eating fast food.
 

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Fred Da Head said:
So in your awesome opinion it's totally fine for people to eat big macs and woppers all the time?
no, next straw man, please.

Unless your purpose is to become an average American, fast food should be avoided as much as possible. There is no way that any fitness goal will be reached faster by eating fast food.
fast food as a category is no better or worse than most other types of restaurant food, and processed foods in general.
 

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If a person is a skinny guy, I don't see anything wrong with eating fast food. If the guy has a slow metabolism and puts on fat easily then I would avoid it. But I can eat fast food and I don't put on fat very easily at all. It doesn't effect me since I am 6'0 162.
 

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Taco Bell has a new "fresco style" menu w/ items that have 0 trans fat,you may want to check it out.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I remember reading an article in a fitness mag about what kind of foods are acceptable at each fast food place. Maybe someone knows what article I'm talking about?

The only one I remember from that list is Wendy's since it's just about the only fast food place around here.

1 Sm Chili (toss the crackers)
1 Baked Potato with broccoli and cheese (no sour cream)
1 Side Garden Salad (hold the dressing)
 

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Monster said:
1 Sm Chili (toss the crackers)
if avoiding starchy carbs.

1 Baked Potato with broccoli and cheese (no sour cream)
if you're worried about saturated fat.

1 Side Garden Salad (hold the dressing)
the dressings top out at 260 calories per packet.

again it depends on your goals. if you're trying to cut out all refined sugars & starches, you need to avoid eating out at all and stay away from most pre-packaged foods. trying to cut saturated fat is overrated, but you can do more by cooking lean meats & fish at home than any careful selections while eating out.

french fries are nutritionally useless, and many brands have transfats, so they're generally best avoided.
 

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Throttle said:
trying to cut saturated fat is overrated, but you can do more by cooking lean meats & fish at home than any careful selections while eating out.
just out of curiousity, have you ever tried the high fat/protein low carb diet?
that statement is remenisent of that particular way of eating.I tried it for a while,but i wounde up having to eat soo much protein and fat in order to get really full and it made me sick.:nervous:
 

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organizedconfusion said:
just out of curiousity, have you ever tried the high fat/protein low carb diet?
that statement is remenisent of that particular way of eating.I tried it for a while,but i wounde up having to eat soo much protein and fat in order to get really full and it made me sick.:nervous:
yes and no. i'm eating these days in a way many would describe as 'low carb' but I consider it a long-term lifestyle choice (reducing sugars & starches to the lowest tolerable amounts without resorting to gimmickry). if you cook at home and learn which veggies you can stand, and balance your fats with oily fish and fish oils, saturated fat isn't nearly the concern it otherwise would be.

if you can get your hands on eggs from chickens on a natural (not all-grain) diet at a reasonable price, they're also full of omega-3s that balance out the rest of the fat in your diet.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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