Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Abundance problems

andreihaha

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I currently kinda have 4 plates and an ex-GF going after me. I can see myself having a future with 3 of them, they are LTR-material, really nice girls. I don't want to hurt them but I haven't decided yet what to do.
Do you have this problem? How do you deal with it?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I currently kinda have 4 plates and an ex-GF going after me. I can see myself having a future with 3 of them, they are LTR-material, really nice girls. I don't want to hurt them but I haven't decided yet what to do.
Do you have this problem? How do you deal with it?
Just be honest with them if they start trying to lock you down and let them know you enjoy spending time with them but are also dating other people. Either they will be OK with it or they won't but they know where things are after that.

Do NOT bring this up unless they give you the "what are we" talk.
 

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I currently kinda have 4 plates and an ex-GF going after me. I can see myself having a future with 3 of them, they are LTR-material, really nice girls. I don't want to hurt them but I haven't decided yet what to do.
Do you have this problem? How do you deal with it?
Just waiting for the haters to chime in. That's a great problem to have. The opposite of many. lol
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Personally stay the course and go about it like the way you have been. That's all part of dating. There will be losers and winners. Nothing is guaranteed. If you get the "where are we" talk, just tell them that you honestly don't know yet and it will be up to them if they wanna continue seeing someone that's unsure or gamble on someone else that may also be unsure.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just waiting for the haters to chime in. That's a great problem to have. The opposite of many. lol
:up:

Personally stay the course and go about it like the way you have been. That's all part of dating. There will be losers and winners. Nothing is guaranteed. If you get the "where are we" talk, just tell them that you honestly don't know yet and it will be up to them if they wanna continue seeing someone that's unsure or gamble on someone else that may also be unsure.
I had a natural charm that made me successful most of my life but I was never a womanizer or a misogynist.
I love women and I don't want to hurt them, but with age I feel like it is harder to find a woman I'd settle with. So it is a numbers game.
Don't want to b1tch about my 1st world problems, but this seems to be the best place for me to ask something like this.

Yeah, probably the only thing I can do is keep going and see what life has to offer.
Just earlier I wanted to let go one of the girls I was seeing, but she showed me a side of herself that...let's just say she's back on the rotation.
Life is unexpected, weird and beautiful.
 
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