"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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cootcat1986

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Hello,

I understand how to be cheeky, and confident and it works with chicks. I can see the attraction in their eyes. My only problem is I never no what to have a conversation about:

Like what do people actually talk to chicks about that keeps them interested. I see my friend talking to a gurl all nite. I dont understand what they can be talkin about.

So if people can give me some help on what they talk about besides from being cheeky and funny what is it?

Thank you.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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when i talk with girls i dont actually try to talk about anything. i just feed off the environment and make c/f comments. if we do get to talking about anything we dont go into anything that deep. this is hs girls i'm talking about, not exactly very intellectual.
 
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Sacrifice said:
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The conversation section of the DJB sucks major ass. The only really good piece of advice it offers is to be a good listener. Check out the blogs on www.charismaarts.com instead. The info you'll find scattered throughout them is much easier to understand and apply, and believe me, it works MUCH better.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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