"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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cootcat1986

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Hello,

I understand how to be cheeky, and confident and it works with chicks. I can see the attraction in their eyes. My only problem is I never no what to have a conversation about:

Like what do people actually talk to chicks about that keeps them interested. I see my friend talking to a gurl all nite. I dont understand what they can be talkin about.

So if people can give me some help on what they talk about besides from being cheeky and funny what is it?

Thank you.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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bballkilla

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when i talk with girls i dont actually try to talk about anything. i just feed off the environment and make c/f comments. if we do get to talking about anything we dont go into anything that deep. this is hs girls i'm talking about, not exactly very intellectual.
 
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Sacrifice said:
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The conversation section of the DJB sucks major ass. The only really good piece of advice it offers is to be a good listener. Check out the blogs on www.charismaarts.com instead. The info you'll find scattered throughout them is much easier to understand and apply, and believe me, it works MUCH better.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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