"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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cootcat1986

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Hello,

I understand how to be cheeky, and confident and it works with chicks. I can see the attraction in their eyes. My only problem is I never no what to have a conversation about:

Like what do people actually talk to chicks about that keeps them interested. I see my friend talking to a gurl all nite. I dont understand what they can be talkin about.

So if people can give me some help on what they talk about besides from being cheeky and funny what is it?

Thank you.
CootCat1986
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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bballkilla

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when i talk with girls i dont actually try to talk about anything. i just feed off the environment and make c/f comments. if we do get to talking about anything we dont go into anything that deep. this is hs girls i'm talking about, not exactly very intellectual.
 

Sean O

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Sacrifice said:
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The conversation section of the DJB sucks major ass. The only really good piece of advice it offers is to be a good listener. Check out the blogs on www.charismaarts.com instead. The info you'll find scattered throughout them is much easier to understand and apply, and believe me, it works MUCH better.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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