Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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cootcat1986

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Hello,

I understand how to be cheeky, and confident and it works with chicks. I can see the attraction in their eyes. My only problem is I never no what to have a conversation about:

Like what do people actually talk to chicks about that keeps them interested. I see my friend talking to a gurl all nite. I dont understand what they can be talkin about.

So if people can give me some help on what they talk about besides from being cheeky and funny what is it?

Thank you.
CootCat1986
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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bballkilla

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when i talk with girls i dont actually try to talk about anything. i just feed off the environment and make c/f comments. if we do get to talking about anything we dont go into anything that deep. this is hs girls i'm talking about, not exactly very intellectual.
 

Sean O

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Sacrifice said:
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The conversation section of the DJB sucks major ass. The only really good piece of advice it offers is to be a good listener. Check out the blogs on www.charismaarts.com instead. The info you'll find scattered throughout them is much easier to understand and apply, and believe me, it works MUCH better.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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