"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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About Adding and Subtracting Weight

Sexual

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Can someone link me to a post about this or simply explain it? I'm an experienced bodybuilder, but have stuck to one complex program for the last few years.

I'm thinking about doing something different, and I was reviewing Diesel's old post. Less than 4 reps too heavy, more than 8 too light.

I don't think I've ever asked: what are the benefits / harms of adding or subtracting weight in your routine? Namely non isolation such as bench, squats, cleans, etc.?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sexual said:
Can someone link me to a post about this or simply explain it? I'm an experienced bodybuilder, but have stuck to one complex program for the last few years.

I'm thinking about doing something different, and I was reviewing Diesel's old post. Less than 4 reps too heavy, more than 8 too light.

I don't think I've ever asked: what are the benefits / harms of adding or subtracting weight in your routine? Namely non isolation such as bench, squats, cleans, etc.?
? i don't understand this question
 

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Most of the time when you raise the reps on your sets you go for looks(more definition),lower reps are normally for strength.
 
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