"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A woman's unusual dealbreaker

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There's this woman who screen calls on the radio. She's a Star Wars/ Sci-Fi geek The woman isn't hot, but chronically obese. She has a list of rules/dealbreakers, because she said if she DOES break the rules, "Bad things happen" whatever that is.

One of them seem rather specific, "If he can't drive stick, because if I can do it, he should be able to."

Really? Can't drive stick is a dealbreaker?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Never worry about a woman's so called deal breakers. Even if you think it is a joke, the fact that it might bother you means on some level you care, which fvcks with your karma and your mindset. When you see something like this, your attitude should be just like if you happen upon a dog chasing it's tail. You laugh, and think "Ain't that funny." then you forget about it. You have to get into the habit of being completely indifferent to ANYTHING chicks do that you do not like. Reward them for behavior you want. Truth is this land-whale is only doing sh!t like this to get attention... I'm sure dudes will respond negative... positive... doesn't matter it's all attention. GIVE THEM NOTHING when they do stuff like this.
 

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Her brain is full of rocks.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I would just ignore them and game as usual. If she is attracted, her deal breakers won't matter. If fatty thinks she can do better then you are out of luck. She will pull a deal breaker out of her giant, lard butt.
 

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Why are you bothered about what some fatty boom boom thinks?

You let her in your car, and she would probably destroy it anyway.
THIS.

Fat pigs can't get attention the normal way by being hot, so they have to talk trash and pretend to be "prizes". Its delusion. And its attention wh0ring. Low value cows with standards are like homeless people who are picky about the brand of tent they sleep in.

OP.. she is basically a troll and you just fed her.
 

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if a fat girl says that it's probably just her way of rationalizing why she doesn't go out with many guys, she pretends that it's because she's picky
 

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That's why I like Outdoors First Dates. Make sure I keep to my own standards. The Land Whales can't make it up the hills.
 

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There's this woman who screen calls on the radio. She's a Star Wars/ Sci-Fi geek The woman isn't hot, but chronically obese. She has a list of rules/dealbreakers, because she said if she DOES break the rules, "Bad things happen" whatever that is.

One of them seem rather specific, "If he can't drive stick, because if I can do it, he should be able to."

Really? Can't drive stick is a dealbreaker?
She's delusional.

These are simply buffers she's putting up, rejecting before (hypothetically) being rejected.

The pay off is that she doesn't actually have to attempt to deal with or take responsibility for any of her own flaws, such as being obese.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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All true but to be fair it's quite possible a succession of geek boyfriends ruined her. Remember most of the go girl feminist propaganda is b*******. Chicks like to be led. If you meet a girl who has a lot of Hobbies and interests you can believe she's had a lot of c0ck too
 
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