"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A woman's unusual dealbreaker

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There's this woman who screen calls on the radio. She's a Star Wars/ Sci-Fi geek The woman isn't hot, but chronically obese. She has a list of rules/dealbreakers, because she said if she DOES break the rules, "Bad things happen" whatever that is.

One of them seem rather specific, "If he can't drive stick, because if I can do it, he should be able to."

Really? Can't drive stick is a dealbreaker?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Never worry about a woman's so called deal breakers. Even if you think it is a joke, the fact that it might bother you means on some level you care, which fvcks with your karma and your mindset. When you see something like this, your attitude should be just like if you happen upon a dog chasing it's tail. You laugh, and think "Ain't that funny." then you forget about it. You have to get into the habit of being completely indifferent to ANYTHING chicks do that you do not like. Reward them for behavior you want. Truth is this land-whale is only doing sh!t like this to get attention... I'm sure dudes will respond negative... positive... doesn't matter it's all attention. GIVE THEM NOTHING when they do stuff like this.
 

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Her brain is full of rocks.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I would just ignore them and game as usual. If she is attracted, her deal breakers won't matter. If fatty thinks she can do better then you are out of luck. She will pull a deal breaker out of her giant, lard butt.
 

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Why are you bothered about what some fatty boom boom thinks?

You let her in your car, and she would probably destroy it anyway.
THIS.

Fat pigs can't get attention the normal way by being hot, so they have to talk trash and pretend to be "prizes". Its delusion. And its attention wh0ring. Low value cows with standards are like homeless people who are picky about the brand of tent they sleep in.

OP.. she is basically a troll and you just fed her.
 

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if a fat girl says that it's probably just her way of rationalizing why she doesn't go out with many guys, she pretends that it's because she's picky
 

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That's why I like Outdoors First Dates. Make sure I keep to my own standards. The Land Whales can't make it up the hills.
 

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There's this woman who screen calls on the radio. She's a Star Wars/ Sci-Fi geek The woman isn't hot, but chronically obese. She has a list of rules/dealbreakers, because she said if she DOES break the rules, "Bad things happen" whatever that is.

One of them seem rather specific, "If he can't drive stick, because if I can do it, he should be able to."

Really? Can't drive stick is a dealbreaker?
She's delusional.

These are simply buffers she's putting up, rejecting before (hypothetically) being rejected.

The pay off is that she doesn't actually have to attempt to deal with or take responsibility for any of her own flaws, such as being obese.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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All true but to be fair it's quite possible a succession of geek boyfriends ruined her. Remember most of the go girl feminist propaganda is b*******. Chicks like to be led. If you meet a girl who has a lot of Hobbies and interests you can believe she's had a lot of c0ck too
 
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