"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A woman's unusual dealbreaker

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There's this woman who screen calls on the radio. She's a Star Wars/ Sci-Fi geek The woman isn't hot, but chronically obese. She has a list of rules/dealbreakers, because she said if she DOES break the rules, "Bad things happen" whatever that is.

One of them seem rather specific, "If he can't drive stick, because if I can do it, he should be able to."

Really? Can't drive stick is a dealbreaker?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Never worry about a woman's so called deal breakers. Even if you think it is a joke, the fact that it might bother you means on some level you care, which fvcks with your karma and your mindset. When you see something like this, your attitude should be just like if you happen upon a dog chasing it's tail. You laugh, and think "Ain't that funny." then you forget about it. You have to get into the habit of being completely indifferent to ANYTHING chicks do that you do not like. Reward them for behavior you want. Truth is this land-whale is only doing sh!t like this to get attention... I'm sure dudes will respond negative... positive... doesn't matter it's all attention. GIVE THEM NOTHING when they do stuff like this.
 

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Her brain is full of rocks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I would just ignore them and game as usual. If she is attracted, her deal breakers won't matter. If fatty thinks she can do better then you are out of luck. She will pull a deal breaker out of her giant, lard butt.
 

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Why are you bothered about what some fatty boom boom thinks?

You let her in your car, and she would probably destroy it anyway.
THIS.

Fat pigs can't get attention the normal way by being hot, so they have to talk trash and pretend to be "prizes". Its delusion. And its attention wh0ring. Low value cows with standards are like homeless people who are picky about the brand of tent they sleep in.

OP.. she is basically a troll and you just fed her.
 

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if a fat girl says that it's probably just her way of rationalizing why she doesn't go out with many guys, she pretends that it's because she's picky
 

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That's why I like Outdoors First Dates. Make sure I keep to my own standards. The Land Whales can't make it up the hills.
 

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There's this woman who screen calls on the radio. She's a Star Wars/ Sci-Fi geek The woman isn't hot, but chronically obese. She has a list of rules/dealbreakers, because she said if she DOES break the rules, "Bad things happen" whatever that is.

One of them seem rather specific, "If he can't drive stick, because if I can do it, he should be able to."

Really? Can't drive stick is a dealbreaker?
She's delusional.

These are simply buffers she's putting up, rejecting before (hypothetically) being rejected.

The pay off is that she doesn't actually have to attempt to deal with or take responsibility for any of her own flaws, such as being obese.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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All true but to be fair it's quite possible a succession of geek boyfriends ruined her. Remember most of the go girl feminist propaganda is b*******. Chicks like to be led. If you meet a girl who has a lot of Hobbies and interests you can believe she's had a lot of c0ck too
 
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