Guys, we can learn a lot from this:
http://nymag.com/daily/intel/2011/09/the_picky_prowling_23-year-old.html
http://nymag.com/daily/intel/2011/09/the_picky_prowling_23-year-old.html
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
A girl becomes a slut when she sleeps with everyone but me.Zarky said:BUT on the other hand I like to see women who aren't afraid of having sex. What would you rather have, a world full of prudes or a world full of sluts?
How about neither? Just because a particular female is a slut doesn't mean that she is less picky. Most males DO have a problem with women who think they can get banged by an army of alpha's only to pick out a beta to settle down with once the old c*nt becomes practically useless.Zarky said:What would you rather have, a world full of prudes or a world full of sluts?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Women being afraid of "being judged" is a piss poor excuse as to why they don't put out often. First of all women don't have anywhere near the sex drive that a male does. Secondly they're the only ones who willingly and easily use sex as a tool for manipulation. When was the last time you heard of a male doing this? Men just want sex for the sake of pleasure itself. The two genders are so vastly different physically and mentally that it's just stupid to make such a linear overly simplified comparison between the two.r0cky said:A girl becomes a slut when she sleeps with everyone but me.
I think the main reason why girls dont act on their sexual urges as much as men is because they will be judged. If we as men stopped judging them for enjoying sex and instead encouraged them, like we do to other males, to be promiscuous, girls would be more open to casual sex.
irocknike23 said:lol this girl gets it in...a lot.
EDIT: makes me think....are all single girls like this or similar?
I dont agree with women having a lower sex drive than men. Men are just more agressive and more free to show they want sex. Women hide it because, like I said, they don't want to be judged.C-quenced said:Women being afraid of "being judged" is a piss poor excuse as to why they don't put out often. First of all women don't have anywhere near the sex drive that a male does. Secondly they're the only ones who willingly and easily use sex as a tool for manipulation. When was the last time you heard of a male doing this? Men just want sex for the sake of pleasure itself. The two genders are so vastly different physically and mentally that it's just stupid to make such a linear overly simplified comparison between the two.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.