Guys, we can learn a lot from this:
http://nymag.com/daily/intel/2011/09/the_picky_prowling_23-year-old.html
http://nymag.com/daily/intel/2011/09/the_picky_prowling_23-year-old.html
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
A girl becomes a slut when she sleeps with everyone but me.Zarky said:BUT on the other hand I like to see women who aren't afraid of having sex. What would you rather have, a world full of prudes or a world full of sluts?
How about neither? Just because a particular female is a slut doesn't mean that she is less picky. Most males DO have a problem with women who think they can get banged by an army of alpha's only to pick out a beta to settle down with once the old c*nt becomes practically useless.Zarky said:What would you rather have, a world full of prudes or a world full of sluts?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Women being afraid of "being judged" is a piss poor excuse as to why they don't put out often. First of all women don't have anywhere near the sex drive that a male does. Secondly they're the only ones who willingly and easily use sex as a tool for manipulation. When was the last time you heard of a male doing this? Men just want sex for the sake of pleasure itself. The two genders are so vastly different physically and mentally that it's just stupid to make such a linear overly simplified comparison between the two.r0cky said:A girl becomes a slut when she sleeps with everyone but me.
I think the main reason why girls dont act on their sexual urges as much as men is because they will be judged. If we as men stopped judging them for enjoying sex and instead encouraged them, like we do to other males, to be promiscuous, girls would be more open to casual sex.
irocknike23 said:lol this girl gets it in...a lot.
EDIT: makes me think....are all single girls like this or similar?
I dont agree with women having a lower sex drive than men. Men are just more agressive and more free to show they want sex. Women hide it because, like I said, they don't want to be judged.C-quenced said:Women being afraid of "being judged" is a piss poor excuse as to why they don't put out often. First of all women don't have anywhere near the sex drive that a male does. Secondly they're the only ones who willingly and easily use sex as a tool for manipulation. When was the last time you heard of a male doing this? Men just want sex for the sake of pleasure itself. The two genders are so vastly different physically and mentally that it's just stupid to make such a linear overly simplified comparison between the two.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.