A true Dj create or find attraction?

[david90]

?

 

[shagnscoob]

depends on how you play the game

if i understand correctly, anti-dump used a technique that finds approach, whereas its obvious that attraction can be built over time

 

[biker_gixxer]

personally, i don't 'find' attraction, i 'create' it. i know how women operate, i know what they want, i know what they like (generally speaking of course). i use these tools to pull them into my reality, my world. Once they have experienced what i have to offer, they always come back for more.

 

[Jariel]

Physical attraction is something you find unless you are willing to change yourself to become attractive to a particular person or people, and that's still not a guarantee.

Emotional and psychological attraction, however, is always created and usually in the mind of the beholder. This is why mystery is important during the initial stages of a relationship as it allows her to fill in the blanks with her own ideals and qualities.

To establish emotional and psychological attraction, your best strategy is to appeal to a woman's imagination and let her create the attraction.

This emphasises why it's so important to let a woman do most of the talking. She will think that she is connecting with you, when she is really connecting with her ideal perception of you.

 

[KnightRyder]

maybe you can aruge this one but I don't you can create attraction ( physical per se ) its either there or not

 

[dearsappho]

i know how women operate, i know what they want, i know what they like (generally speaking of course).[/B]

Care to elaborate?

 

[Double J]

Originally posted by Jariel
Physical attraction is something you find unless you are willing to change yourself to become attractive to a particular person or people, and that's still not a guarantee.

Emotional and psychological attraction, however, is always created and usually in the mind of the beholder. This is why mystery is important during the initial stages of a relationship as it allows her to fill in the blanks with her own ideals and qualities.

To establish emotional and psychological attraction, your best strategy is to appeal to a woman's imagination and let her create the attraction.

This emphasises why it's so important to let a woman do most of the talking. She will think that she is connecting with you, when she is really connecting with her ideal perception of you.

Very nicely put, Jariel. That process of creating emotional and psychological attraction is usually how a girl can become "attached" to a guy she first meets online, for example. Being mysterious allows the person to somewhat idealize you before they see your true colors.

 

[SamePendo]

Whatever you do.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

A true DJ doesn't ask stooopid questions like this