"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A "tactic" you won't want to miss -- C&F at its best

Alphathree

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Okay guys, I am sharing this with you against my better judgement because this isn't some 'canned' thing I found on the internet .

I came up with it myself and it works really well.

It's quite simple. Maybe you came up with it too.

Basically, every girl you meet, you have to tell them you think of them as your pet.

Some will be shocked, others will be defiant. Once that stage settles, you have to go into elaborate detail about their pet-ness.

What kind of pet are they? What attributes do they have (cute, fuzzy, furry, bouncy, etc.)?

Depending on how far you want to go, I like to also use: Where can you hook a leash onto them? (This is good if they have a lot of jewelry or wristbands or anything fancy.)

And best of all, their name. Spot, snuggles, freaky, boinky, whatever fits.

So now you've made some C&F comments, made the tone of the conversation lighter, and introduced a pet name for her. And you've set the stage for "she has to try to get up to your status" and not the other way around.

(In case you don't know, if you're trying to get up to her status, it's over before it begins.)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The Juan and only

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Actually that's not a bad idea. I may try it out.

good post dude, it should probably be in the tips section though:up:
 

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Brilliant. Absofvckinglutely brilliant!:crackup:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Nice Guy is Gone

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I just may try this out--sounds good, and I wanted it to be bumped. It also should've been in the tips section.
 

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HAHAHA :D omg this was too funny to read. Sounds like what its like.. prolly explains why I always watch in laughter whenever I dangle a piece of candy infront of a girl :D.
 
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