"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A "tactic" you won't want to miss -- C&F at its best

Alphathree

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Okay guys, I am sharing this with you against my better judgement because this isn't some 'canned' thing I found on the internet .

I came up with it myself and it works really well.

It's quite simple. Maybe you came up with it too.

Basically, every girl you meet, you have to tell them you think of them as your pet.

Some will be shocked, others will be defiant. Once that stage settles, you have to go into elaborate detail about their pet-ness.

What kind of pet are they? What attributes do they have (cute, fuzzy, furry, bouncy, etc.)?

Depending on how far you want to go, I like to also use: Where can you hook a leash onto them? (This is good if they have a lot of jewelry or wristbands or anything fancy.)

And best of all, their name. Spot, snuggles, freaky, boinky, whatever fits.

So now you've made some C&F comments, made the tone of the conversation lighter, and introduced a pet name for her. And you've set the stage for "she has to try to get up to your status" and not the other way around.

(In case you don't know, if you're trying to get up to her status, it's over before it begins.)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Juan and only

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Actually that's not a bad idea. I may try it out.

good post dude, it should probably be in the tips section though:up:
 

Bonhomme

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Brilliant. Absofvckinglutely brilliant!:crackup:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Nice Guy is Gone

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I just may try this out--sounds good, and I wanted it to be bumped. It also should've been in the tips section.
 

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HAHAHA :D omg this was too funny to read. Sounds like what its like.. prolly explains why I always watch in laughter whenever I dangle a piece of candy infront of a girl :D.
 
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