"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A "tactic" you won't want to miss -- C&F at its best

Alphathree

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Okay guys, I am sharing this with you against my better judgement because this isn't some 'canned' thing I found on the internet .

I came up with it myself and it works really well.

It's quite simple. Maybe you came up with it too.

Basically, every girl you meet, you have to tell them you think of them as your pet.

Some will be shocked, others will be defiant. Once that stage settles, you have to go into elaborate detail about their pet-ness.

What kind of pet are they? What attributes do they have (cute, fuzzy, furry, bouncy, etc.)?

Depending on how far you want to go, I like to also use: Where can you hook a leash onto them? (This is good if they have a lot of jewelry or wristbands or anything fancy.)

And best of all, their name. Spot, snuggles, freaky, boinky, whatever fits.

So now you've made some C&F comments, made the tone of the conversation lighter, and introduced a pet name for her. And you've set the stage for "she has to try to get up to your status" and not the other way around.

(In case you don't know, if you're trying to get up to her status, it's over before it begins.)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The Juan and only

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Actually that's not a bad idea. I may try it out.

good post dude, it should probably be in the tips section though:up:
 

Bonhomme

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Brilliant. Absofvckinglutely brilliant!:crackup:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Nice Guy is Gone

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I just may try this out--sounds good, and I wanted it to be bumped. It also should've been in the tips section.
 

DJHoolahoop

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HAHAHA :D omg this was too funny to read. Sounds like what its like.. prolly explains why I always watch in laughter whenever I dangle a piece of candy infront of a girl :D.
 
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