Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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A "tactic" you won't want to miss -- C&F at its best

Alphathree

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Okay guys, I am sharing this with you against my better judgement because this isn't some 'canned' thing I found on the internet .

I came up with it myself and it works really well.

It's quite simple. Maybe you came up with it too.

Basically, every girl you meet, you have to tell them you think of them as your pet.

Some will be shocked, others will be defiant. Once that stage settles, you have to go into elaborate detail about their pet-ness.

What kind of pet are they? What attributes do they have (cute, fuzzy, furry, bouncy, etc.)?

Depending on how far you want to go, I like to also use: Where can you hook a leash onto them? (This is good if they have a lot of jewelry or wristbands or anything fancy.)

And best of all, their name. Spot, snuggles, freaky, boinky, whatever fits.

So now you've made some C&F comments, made the tone of the conversation lighter, and introduced a pet name for her. And you've set the stage for "she has to try to get up to your status" and not the other way around.

(In case you don't know, if you're trying to get up to her status, it's over before it begins.)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Juan and only

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Actually that's not a bad idea. I may try it out.

good post dude, it should probably be in the tips section though:up:
 

Bonhomme

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Brilliant. Absofvckinglutely brilliant!:crackup:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Nice Guy is Gone

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I just may try this out--sounds good, and I wanted it to be bumped. It also should've been in the tips section.
 

DJHoolahoop

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HAHAHA :D omg this was too funny to read. Sounds like what its like.. prolly explains why I always watch in laughter whenever I dangle a piece of candy infront of a girl :D.
 
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