"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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A stripper gave me a phone number. Now what?

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OK, this is my first post ever. Please be gentle.

I went to a strip club and got a VIP treatment from a stripper. Well, I was struck with a huge anxiety attack and my member kept becoming soft. :cry:

The stripper was embarrassed and she really wants to help me out later. Then she suddenly gave her phone number. And she asked me to txt me later.

I guess she might have done that out of pity. Actually I haven't had a GF for five years and nervousness really got me. Even now, I have a trouble falling asleep.

So...what's gonna happen? This is so sudden.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She's probably hooking on the side for extra cash. I'd toss the number and never go back to that particular strip club.
 
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Well, you COULD start a dialog with her. But remember shes just gonna be for a f---. However, you can always have her "show you some tricks" on how to relax & please a woman. What have you got to lose, besides your nerviousness and a few bucks? Isn't the object here to get laid? So "practice" on her. You're not looking for a wife, just to get laid!
 
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why are you freaking out. start texting her and game her up and see how it goes, she can show you some tricks, just keep your softy strapped
 
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She's a stripper. You're a wallet. If you are comfortable with that, call her.

I'm being blunt and serious here -- you are not to entertain any idea that a stripper can be anything more than a *****.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LostAndConfused said:
Now....you call her.
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hey ambelada, im from the IE too... nice to know someone in here could be my neighbor
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I dunno, she talked about her ex being Japanese. (I am Korean) But some of you are right. You can't take a stripper at the face value.
 
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Call her and use the material you've been studying.
 
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the only way to find out what's up is to call her. But personally I wouldn't call a stripper that I met at a strip club, your just a paycheck to her (I know, I've been seeing a stripper recently and she tells me stories about the girls where she works).
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Maybe she wants to put the lead back in your pencil and wants to be your "healer".

If you are Korean, she probably thinks you are really prudish and shy and wants to bring you out of that, wants to challenge you. Its such a turn on making a good boy go bad!
 
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