"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A stripper gave me a phone number. Now what?

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OK, this is my first post ever. Please be gentle.

I went to a strip club and got a VIP treatment from a stripper. Well, I was struck with a huge anxiety attack and my member kept becoming soft. :cry:

The stripper was embarrassed and she really wants to help me out later. Then she suddenly gave her phone number. And she asked me to txt me later.

I guess she might have done that out of pity. Actually I haven't had a GF for five years and nervousness really got me. Even now, I have a trouble falling asleep.

So...what's gonna happen? This is so sudden.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She's probably hooking on the side for extra cash. I'd toss the number and never go back to that particular strip club.
 
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Well, you COULD start a dialog with her. But remember shes just gonna be for a f---. However, you can always have her "show you some tricks" on how to relax & please a woman. What have you got to lose, besides your nerviousness and a few bucks? Isn't the object here to get laid? So "practice" on her. You're not looking for a wife, just to get laid!
 
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why are you freaking out. start texting her and game her up and see how it goes, she can show you some tricks, just keep your softy strapped
 
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She's a stripper. You're a wallet. If you are comfortable with that, call her.

I'm being blunt and serious here -- you are not to entertain any idea that a stripper can be anything more than a *****.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Now....you call her.
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hey ambelada, im from the IE too... nice to know someone in here could be my neighbor
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I dunno, she talked about her ex being Japanese. (I am Korean) But some of you are right. You can't take a stripper at the face value.
 
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Call her and use the material you've been studying.
 
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the only way to find out what's up is to call her. But personally I wouldn't call a stripper that I met at a strip club, your just a paycheck to her (I know, I've been seeing a stripper recently and she tells me stories about the girls where she works).
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Maybe she wants to put the lead back in your pencil and wants to be your "healer".

If you are Korean, she probably thinks you are really prudish and shy and wants to bring you out of that, wants to challenge you. Its such a turn on making a good boy go bad!
 
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