Ok heres the story, I have this girl in my class who I became friends with. We would talk alot in class, we had chemistry together, lots of things in common. But we continued to stay friends. We have been friends for about 4 months or so, and recently she has been telling me about this guy she thinks is cute but doesnt really know. I am finally ready to make my move, do you guys think it is too late? or should I go for it? If so, do you have any suggestions?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
KontrollerX
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Meh.
Sounds like you're securely stuck in the friendzone.
Sounds like you're securely stuck in the friendzone.
The Shocker
Senior Don Juan
Time to move on.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Kev07
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i think it is too late.
but of course, you'll never know for sure. make your move. now.
have you shown any signs of interest over those 4 months? because that's a LONG time to be casual
but of course, you'll never know for sure. make your move. now.
have you shown any signs of interest over those 4 months? because that's a LONG time to be casual
DontQuitYet
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well
you should go for it. What's the worst that can happen? Chances are you will always be "friends" but even if that's the case she'll just tell you that. So might as well be risky.
you should go for it. What's the worst that can happen? Chances are you will always be "friends" but even if that's the case she'll just tell you that. So might as well be risky.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
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I'd just go for it before its too late, man. Shes still gonna like you, maybe she'll like you even more because you like her, who knows.
Wanna find out right
Wanna find out right
aussiegoat55
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DO NOT WAIT ANY LONGER! MAN UP, and Carpe Diem!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.