nicksaiz65
Master Don Juan
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That's the unfortunate reality, most of the Cold Approaches you do will go nowhere. I agree with you that it's easier to get burnt out on dating apps than cold approach. That said, cold approach still >>>>>>> social circle imo cause you can pull girls from anywhere instead of just your small social circle.Approach burnout happens. It happens when numerous approaches do not amount to anything. The majority of cold approaches do not lead to anything.
I've had burnout at times with app dating. My app dating burnout occurs when numerous first dates occur in a short period (something like 5 in 2 weeks) and none of the prospects result in bangs or even second dates. I've just deleted apps when that has happened.
One approach a day is a good idea. The main advantage of approaching over app swiping is that it actually saves money to be a cold approacher. If a cold approach goes bad, you aren't out any cash. If an app date goes bad, you're out the cost of the drinks date. 5 failed drinks dates in 2 weeks can add up fast. 5 failed cold approaches usually won't cost anything.
Right, all it costs is your time. I'm thinking one approach a day should be my absolute MINIMUM. Either that, or do them in batches. But absolute minimum it should average out to one approach a day at least. 3 a day is better, but that's hard to do in pandemic.
I was a bit exhausted, but after seeing the holes in my game, I feel motivated as hell again lol. I'll go hard and get up to 25 by the end of this weekend. In addition to some girls hopefully choosing me.
That waitress girl has also been texting me. I'll hit her up and try to set up a date for this weekend.