"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
A simple reply to "let's just be friends"
- Thread starter nroug7
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
If you ever hear those words she is not fit for the purpose you intended. If you WANTED to be friends with her you'd never have heard those words in the first place.
As others have said in recent posts, she is basically saying, "it's never going to happen but I want you to orbit me for my own self esteem"
And this response forces her into two outcomes - she either gives in due to your confident persistence, or you don't become friends since there are no benefits.Brosy said:
Never repress sexual desire, even when you hear a line like that. It just sounds like you are making an excuse to collapse your entire frame on the spot and walk away.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
switch
Master Don Juan
when you get that line from a girl, it's a sinker.doesn't matter how you respond to her, your ship will capsize.nroug7 said:
best response is : "I have enough friends as it is , thank you.Have a nice day"
or i: "sorry , i'm not looking for friends"
polite , efficient.
My reply?
"No."
Her reply?
"Well F*ck off then!" (and then she had sex with me and told me I was the greatest lover she ever had).
A time will come when I get hit with that line, and I think that your line suits my personality at the moment so I'd use it, then if nothing was forthcoming I'd gradually disappear.
Gunner
I got that line off my ex when I was trying to get back with her. Went round for the first time after we split not sure if anything would even happen but within a few minutes she was all over me. She's now my fb.