"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A simple reply to "let's just be friends"

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Brosy

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Or just "nah", then never speak to her again.

If you ever hear those words she is not fit for the purpose you intended. If you WANTED to be friends with her you'd never have heard those words in the first place.

As others have said in recent posts, she is basically saying, "it's never going to happen but I want you to orbit me for my own self esteem"
 

nroug7

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Brosy said:
Or just "nah", then never speak to her again.

If you ever hear those words she is not fit for the purpose you intended. If you WANTED to be friends with her you'd never have heard those words in the first place.

As others have said in recent posts, she is basically saying, "it's never going to happen but I want you to orbit me for my own self esteem"
And this response forces her into two outcomes - she either gives in due to your confident persistence, or you don't become friends since there are no benefits.
Never repress sexual desire, even when you hear a line like that. It just sounds like you are making an excuse to collapse your entire frame on the spot and walk away.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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nroug7 said:
Sure, are you ready to discuss the benefits?
when you get that line from a girl, it's a sinker.doesn't matter how you respond to her, your ship will capsize.

best response is : "I have enough friends as it is , thank you.Have a nice day"

or i: "sorry , i'm not looking for friends"

polite , efficient.
 

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I once got a 2-page letter from a girl that ended with "So, what I'm saying is, is it ok for now if we're just friends?"

My reply?

"No."

Her reply?

"Well F*ck off then!" (and then she had sex with me and told me I was the greatest lover she ever had).
 

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I've actually never been given that line in a rejection sense. To be honest I've never had the balls to make a move like that. If I'm in the friendzone I know it, and I'm either OK with it and keep being mates, or I just withdraw distance without hearing that sentence.

A time will come when I get hit with that line, and I think that your line suits my personality at the moment so I'd use it, then if nothing was forthcoming I'd gradually disappear.

Gunner
 

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Depends on their meaning of 'friends' really.

I got that line off my ex when I was trying to get back with her. Went round for the first time after we split not sure if anything would even happen but within a few minutes she was all over me. She's now my fb.
 
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