"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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A question from me, to you

BongDuy

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Okay, so this girl named "Megz" came down from colorado, to miami, which is about 30 minutes away from my place. She accompanied by her bro, and is staying with her uncle. Her uncle kept mentioning how i should try and get with his neice, which is really weird, but i was thinking " sure... ill talk to her "
So i finally meet her. I try to get her to talk, but she doesn't say much. I wasn't sure if she was just shy, or nervous to meet me, or what, but long story short, i ended up looking like the riddler, asking her a bunch of questions to get her to talk.

I spent two days down in miami, in the same house. She didn't know i "liked" her until her uncle and his bro kept teasing her about me by saying things like " MEG, YOUR BOYFRIEND IS HERE!" or " So since he is to shy, are you going to make the first move on him?" in which she would reply " psshh... im good..." thats when i knew she didn't like me like that.

Too be honest, i don't even really like her, i don't know why im so nervous around her. I think its because I feel as if her family is pressuring me to make an unnatural move on this girl, when i don't feel its right.

Her bro and uncle tried to convince me she just wants me to chase her, but i dont think so...


Its pretty obvious she isnt into me, but i want to make things less weird between us.My question is even though its super awkward between us because of her uncle and me being so nervous around her( i was never good at talking to girls who play " the game "), i was wondering if anyone could give me advice on what to say or how to act around her next time i see her?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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djinhell

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Just be cool. Theres no need to feel pressure, it takes the fun out of everything.

Just treat it as a bit of a laugh and a joke...take it light hearted...the sooner you relax, the better you will feel, and undoubtedly she will feel relaxed around you...

and if she is one of those chicks who takes herself way too seriously, just laugh at that aswell!

DJ IN HELL
 

King Turi

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Tell her you feel weird since her uncle and her bro are like forcing you to bust a move on her.

Then tell her you would have already except you don't like bein' told what to do.
 
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