"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A question from me, to you

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BongDuy

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Okay, so this girl named "Megz" came down from colorado, to miami, which is about 30 minutes away from my place. She accompanied by her bro, and is staying with her uncle. Her uncle kept mentioning how i should try and get with his neice, which is really weird, but i was thinking " sure... ill talk to her "
So i finally meet her. I try to get her to talk, but she doesn't say much. I wasn't sure if she was just shy, or nervous to meet me, or what, but long story short, i ended up looking like the riddler, asking her a bunch of questions to get her to talk.

I spent two days down in miami, in the same house. She didn't know i "liked" her until her uncle and his bro kept teasing her about me by saying things like " MEG, YOUR BOYFRIEND IS HERE!" or " So since he is to shy, are you going to make the first move on him?" in which she would reply " psshh... im good..." thats when i knew she didn't like me like that.

Too be honest, i don't even really like her, i don't know why im so nervous around her. I think its because I feel as if her family is pressuring me to make an unnatural move on this girl, when i don't feel its right.

Her bro and uncle tried to convince me she just wants me to chase her, but i dont think so...


Its pretty obvious she isnt into me, but i want to make things less weird between us.My question is even though its super awkward between us because of her uncle and me being so nervous around her( i was never good at talking to girls who play " the game "), i was wondering if anyone could give me advice on what to say or how to act around her next time i see her?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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djinhell

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Just be cool. Theres no need to feel pressure, it takes the fun out of everything.

Just treat it as a bit of a laugh and a joke...take it light hearted...the sooner you relax, the better you will feel, and undoubtedly she will feel relaxed around you...

and if she is one of those chicks who takes herself way too seriously, just laugh at that aswell!

DJ IN HELL
 
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King Turi

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Tell her you feel weird since her uncle and her bro are like forcing you to bust a move on her.

Then tell her you would have already except you don't like bein' told what to do.
 
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