"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A question for the Black men - do most Black women have such a terrible attitude as this one?

MatureDJ

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She talks like a sailor, and seems to hate the idea of having to work, as an existential dread akin to a "nightmare". :rolleyes:

 

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I don't get with any woman, including blacks (who tend to like whites and other races anyway and ignore me too, lol!) so I wouldn't know. I'm like equal opportunity rejected. You can at least get black girls.

However, what I can say this, working full time can be challenging because it means there is less personal time, especially if the pay is not that great with the cost of living crises in all that. Chances are, she's being paid minimum wage or some low pay and she's getting allot of attitude at work.

It makes me grateful for where I'm working at. I'm talking to two different ladies at work who are nice/decent with me. I asked out another girl earlier, and even if I'm not talking with her, there were no serious reprocussions for doing that to make me regret it. There is no real "attitude" from other co-workers or management (ie at least the type that she's talking about), and I feel positive about my job as a whole.

I do come to relalize that there ar worst jobs out there, in terms of wages, and in terms of social dynamics that can be toxic. However, there are laws, and if a workplace is that bad, then she could quit the job with cause and apply for EI benefits (provided she worked the minimum time there).
 

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I don't get with any woman, including blacks (who tend to like whites and other races anyway and ignore me too, lol!) so I wouldn't know. I'm like equal opportunity rejected. You can at least get black girls.

However, what I can say this, working full time can be challenging because it means there is less personal time, especially if the pay is not that great with the cost of living crises in all that. Chances are, she's being paid minimum wage or some low pay and she's getting allot of attitude at work.

It makes me grateful for where I'm working at. I'm talking to two different ladies at work who are nice/decent with me. I asked out another girl earlier, and even if I'm not talking with her, there were no serious reprocussions for doing that to make me regret it. There is no real "attitude" from other co-workers or management (ie at least the type that she's talking about), and I feel positive about my job as a whole.

I do come to relalize that there ar worst jobs out there, in terms of wages, and in terms of social dynamics that can be toxic. However, there are laws, and if a workplace is that bad, then she could quit the job with cause and apply for EI benefits (provided she worked the minimum time there).
It's OVER for EqualOpportunityCels.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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