"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A question for the Black men - do most Black women have such a terrible attitude as this one?

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She talks like a sailor, and seems to hate the idea of having to work, as an existential dread akin to a "nightmare". :rolleyes:

 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I don't get with any woman, including blacks (who tend to like whites and other races anyway and ignore me too, lol!) so I wouldn't know. I'm like equal opportunity rejected. You can at least get black girls.

However, what I can say this, working full time can be challenging because it means there is less personal time, especially if the pay is not that great with the cost of living crises in all that. Chances are, she's being paid minimum wage or some low pay and she's getting allot of attitude at work.

It makes me grateful for where I'm working at. I'm talking to two different ladies at work who are nice/decent with me. I asked out another girl earlier, and even if I'm not talking with her, there were no serious reprocussions for doing that to make me regret it. There is no real "attitude" from other co-workers or management (ie at least the type that she's talking about), and I feel positive about my job as a whole.

I do come to relalize that there ar worst jobs out there, in terms of wages, and in terms of social dynamics that can be toxic. However, there are laws, and if a workplace is that bad, then she could quit the job with cause and apply for EI benefits (provided she worked the minimum time there).
 

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I don't get with any woman, including blacks (who tend to like whites and other races anyway and ignore me too, lol!) so I wouldn't know. I'm like equal opportunity rejected. You can at least get black girls.

However, what I can say this, working full time can be challenging because it means there is less personal time, especially if the pay is not that great with the cost of living crises in all that. Chances are, she's being paid minimum wage or some low pay and she's getting allot of attitude at work.

It makes me grateful for where I'm working at. I'm talking to two different ladies at work who are nice/decent with me. I asked out another girl earlier, and even if I'm not talking with her, there were no serious reprocussions for doing that to make me regret it. There is no real "attitude" from other co-workers or management (ie at least the type that she's talking about), and I feel positive about my job as a whole.

I do come to relalize that there ar worst jobs out there, in terms of wages, and in terms of social dynamics that can be toxic. However, there are laws, and if a workplace is that bad, then she could quit the job with cause and apply for EI benefits (provided she worked the minimum time there).
It's OVER for EqualOpportunityCels.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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