"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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A question for Dr. P (a.k.a. LMS) about marriage...

ThunderMaverick

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Given the recent events I've been through, (And reading another topic on the subject.)I've been thinking about the benefits of being married to a woman. What the hell are the benefits!? What CAN a woman offer you besides sex? I have cetain reasons, but I'm on the fence about them now. I don't know what to believe at the moment.

What can a woman offer you in marrage...besides sex? I want your personal opinion. What is it that we lack as men that allow women to compensate for it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Chemistry

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Honestly... only get married if you want kids... sex is available everywhere, and a requirement is not marriage

The financial reasons that most people cite are not justification for you to kiss your freedom goodbye because financial situations change and when I contrast my friends who are 30, single and well off with those who hooked up because it benefitted them financially, so are 30, married and well off... the friends who are single enjoy their life much more...
 

Chemistry

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Raikojo17 said:
well, you get sex alot more than a single guy.
Haha... you sure about that one?

We're not talking single guy in the sense of having no women at all... we're takling single guy in the sense of not being married... meeting new chicks and building attraction isn't a chore, it's fun and pretty easy... and I guarantee most of the folks who got married were getting laid more when that chick was just their GF
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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