"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A question for Dr. P (a.k.a. LMS) about marriage...

ThunderMaverick

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Given the recent events I've been through, (And reading another topic on the subject.)I've been thinking about the benefits of being married to a woman. What the hell are the benefits!? What CAN a woman offer you besides sex? I have cetain reasons, but I'm on the fence about them now. I don't know what to believe at the moment.

What can a woman offer you in marrage...besides sex? I want your personal opinion. What is it that we lack as men that allow women to compensate for it?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Honestly... only get married if you want kids... sex is available everywhere, and a requirement is not marriage

The financial reasons that most people cite are not justification for you to kiss your freedom goodbye because financial situations change and when I contrast my friends who are 30, single and well off with those who hooked up because it benefitted them financially, so are 30, married and well off... the friends who are single enjoy their life much more...
 

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Raikojo17 said:
well, you get sex alot more than a single guy.
Haha... you sure about that one?

We're not talking single guy in the sense of having no women at all... we're takling single guy in the sense of not being married... meeting new chicks and building attraction isn't a chore, it's fun and pretty easy... and I guarantee most of the folks who got married were getting laid more when that chick was just their GF
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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