"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A question for Dr. P (a.k.a. LMS) about marriage...

ThunderMaverick

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Given the recent events I've been through, (And reading another topic on the subject.)I've been thinking about the benefits of being married to a woman. What the hell are the benefits!? What CAN a woman offer you besides sex? I have cetain reasons, but I'm on the fence about them now. I don't know what to believe at the moment.

What can a woman offer you in marrage...besides sex? I want your personal opinion. What is it that we lack as men that allow women to compensate for it?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Honestly... only get married if you want kids... sex is available everywhere, and a requirement is not marriage

The financial reasons that most people cite are not justification for you to kiss your freedom goodbye because financial situations change and when I contrast my friends who are 30, single and well off with those who hooked up because it benefitted them financially, so are 30, married and well off... the friends who are single enjoy their life much more...
 

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Raikojo17 said:
well, you get sex alot more than a single guy.
Haha... you sure about that one?

We're not talking single guy in the sense of having no women at all... we're takling single guy in the sense of not being married... meeting new chicks and building attraction isn't a chore, it's fun and pretty easy... and I guarantee most of the folks who got married were getting laid more when that chick was just their GF
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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