"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A question for Dr. P (a.k.a. LMS) about marriage...

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Given the recent events I've been through, (And reading another topic on the subject.)I've been thinking about the benefits of being married to a woman. What the hell are the benefits!? What CAN a woman offer you besides sex? I have cetain reasons, but I'm on the fence about them now. I don't know what to believe at the moment.

What can a woman offer you in marrage...besides sex? I want your personal opinion. What is it that we lack as men that allow women to compensate for it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Honestly... only get married if you want kids... sex is available everywhere, and a requirement is not marriage

The financial reasons that most people cite are not justification for you to kiss your freedom goodbye because financial situations change and when I contrast my friends who are 30, single and well off with those who hooked up because it benefitted them financially, so are 30, married and well off... the friends who are single enjoy their life much more...
 
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Raikojo17 said:
well, you get sex alot more than a single guy.
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Haha... you sure about that one?

We're not talking single guy in the sense of having no women at all... we're takling single guy in the sense of not being married... meeting new chicks and building attraction isn't a chore, it's fun and pretty easy... and I guarantee most of the folks who got married were getting laid more when that chick was just their GF
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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