"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A question for Dr. P (a.k.a. LMS) about marriage...

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Given the recent events I've been through, (And reading another topic on the subject.)I've been thinking about the benefits of being married to a woman. What the hell are the benefits!? What CAN a woman offer you besides sex? I have cetain reasons, but I'm on the fence about them now. I don't know what to believe at the moment.

What can a woman offer you in marrage...besides sex? I want your personal opinion. What is it that we lack as men that allow women to compensate for it?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Honestly... only get married if you want kids... sex is available everywhere, and a requirement is not marriage

The financial reasons that most people cite are not justification for you to kiss your freedom goodbye because financial situations change and when I contrast my friends who are 30, single and well off with those who hooked up because it benefitted them financially, so are 30, married and well off... the friends who are single enjoy their life much more...
 
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Raikojo17 said:
well, you get sex alot more than a single guy.
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Haha... you sure about that one?

We're not talking single guy in the sense of having no women at all... we're takling single guy in the sense of not being married... meeting new chicks and building attraction isn't a chore, it's fun and pretty easy... and I guarantee most of the folks who got married were getting laid more when that chick was just their GF
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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