"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A question about kino

antidonjuan

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I have read a lot of posts regarding the use of kino and I have been greatly shocked by it, girls like guys touching them playfully?

I know this girl who is reasonably interested in me and poked me(chest) playfully, is this really an indication of a high interest level but not just friendly touching?

If so, should i just touch her slightly on the arm when i meet her? but it wont it seem awkward to her the fact that i have never done this to her before?

touch tips please
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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antidonjuan said:
I have read a lot of posts regarding the use of kino and I have been greatly shocked by it, girls like guys touching them playfully?

I know this girl who is reasonably interested in me and poked me(chest) playfully, is this really an indication of a high interest level but not just friendly touching?

If so, should i just touch her slightly on the arm when i meet her? but it wont it seem awkward to her the fact that i have never done this to her before?

touch tips please
one thing I started doing is putting my hand on a girls waist when I start a convo.

If someones near me Ill kino
 

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whoaa but thats so rude and inapropriate! waist? isnt that too far? they wont mind?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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War Against Betaism

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http://youtube.com/watch?v=Edh2GQHZmtI

Watch this video, it's divided into 10 segments (should have been 8 but I was unaware of youtubes video length policy). This is the first of 10.

This is one of my favorite DJ videos, it gives you a great insight on one of the most powerful weapons you can use for seduction, kino.
 

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yea i watched it before but its for much older woman
keep in mind that this is a high school forum for teens
 

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No, this video isn't exclusive to just older women. One of my friend's game is driven by almost kino alone and girls love him, and the kino that he uses is the same that are used in that video. He's also still in high school.

Besides, it teaches more than just techniques, it's more about belief and an overall education about the art of kino.
 

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The waist is a little awkward if you don't place your hands right. I say an excellent starting point is actually in the upper arm (think biceps and triceps). When you see a girl or start talking to her, just gently tap the side of her arm to start off with. It's a very non-threatening and unobtrusive way to initiate kino. Plus, it's a lot less scary if you're just starting kino.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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