"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A question about kino

antidonjuan

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I have read a lot of posts regarding the use of kino and I have been greatly shocked by it, girls like guys touching them playfully?

I know this girl who is reasonably interested in me and poked me(chest) playfully, is this really an indication of a high interest level but not just friendly touching?

If so, should i just touch her slightly on the arm when i meet her? but it wont it seem awkward to her the fact that i have never done this to her before?

touch tips please
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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antidonjuan said:
I have read a lot of posts regarding the use of kino and I have been greatly shocked by it, girls like guys touching them playfully?

I know this girl who is reasonably interested in me and poked me(chest) playfully, is this really an indication of a high interest level but not just friendly touching?

If so, should i just touch her slightly on the arm when i meet her? but it wont it seem awkward to her the fact that i have never done this to her before?

touch tips please
one thing I started doing is putting my hand on a girls waist when I start a convo.

If someones near me Ill kino
 

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whoaa but thats so rude and inapropriate! waist? isnt that too far? they wont mind?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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War Against Betaism

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http://youtube.com/watch?v=Edh2GQHZmtI

Watch this video, it's divided into 10 segments (should have been 8 but I was unaware of youtubes video length policy). This is the first of 10.

This is one of my favorite DJ videos, it gives you a great insight on one of the most powerful weapons you can use for seduction, kino.
 

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yea i watched it before but its for much older woman
keep in mind that this is a high school forum for teens
 

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No, this video isn't exclusive to just older women. One of my friend's game is driven by almost kino alone and girls love him, and the kino that he uses is the same that are used in that video. He's also still in high school.

Besides, it teaches more than just techniques, it's more about belief and an overall education about the art of kino.
 

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The waist is a little awkward if you don't place your hands right. I say an excellent starting point is actually in the upper arm (think biceps and triceps). When you see a girl or start talking to her, just gently tap the side of her arm to start off with. It's a very non-threatening and unobtrusive way to initiate kino. Plus, it's a lot less scary if you're just starting kino.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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