Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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A question about kino

antidonjuan

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I have read a lot of posts regarding the use of kino and I have been greatly shocked by it, girls like guys touching them playfully?

I know this girl who is reasonably interested in me and poked me(chest) playfully, is this really an indication of a high interest level but not just friendly touching?

If so, should i just touch her slightly on the arm when i meet her? but it wont it seem awkward to her the fact that i have never done this to her before?

touch tips please
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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antidonjuan said:
I have read a lot of posts regarding the use of kino and I have been greatly shocked by it, girls like guys touching them playfully?

I know this girl who is reasonably interested in me and poked me(chest) playfully, is this really an indication of a high interest level but not just friendly touching?

If so, should i just touch her slightly on the arm when i meet her? but it wont it seem awkward to her the fact that i have never done this to her before?

touch tips please
one thing I started doing is putting my hand on a girls waist when I start a convo.

If someones near me Ill kino
 

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whoaa but thats so rude and inapropriate! waist? isnt that too far? they wont mind?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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War Against Betaism

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http://youtube.com/watch?v=Edh2GQHZmtI

Watch this video, it's divided into 10 segments (should have been 8 but I was unaware of youtubes video length policy). This is the first of 10.

This is one of my favorite DJ videos, it gives you a great insight on one of the most powerful weapons you can use for seduction, kino.
 

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yea i watched it before but its for much older woman
keep in mind that this is a high school forum for teens
 

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No, this video isn't exclusive to just older women. One of my friend's game is driven by almost kino alone and girls love him, and the kino that he uses is the same that are used in that video. He's also still in high school.

Besides, it teaches more than just techniques, it's more about belief and an overall education about the art of kino.
 

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The waist is a little awkward if you don't place your hands right. I say an excellent starting point is actually in the upper arm (think biceps and triceps). When you see a girl or start talking to her, just gently tap the side of her arm to start off with. It's a very non-threatening and unobtrusive way to initiate kino. Plus, it's a lot less scary if you're just starting kino.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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