"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A question about kino

antidonjuan

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I have read a lot of posts regarding the use of kino and I have been greatly shocked by it, girls like guys touching them playfully?

I know this girl who is reasonably interested in me and poked me(chest) playfully, is this really an indication of a high interest level but not just friendly touching?

If so, should i just touch her slightly on the arm when i meet her? but it wont it seem awkward to her the fact that i have never done this to her before?

touch tips please
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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antidonjuan said:
I have read a lot of posts regarding the use of kino and I have been greatly shocked by it, girls like guys touching them playfully?

I know this girl who is reasonably interested in me and poked me(chest) playfully, is this really an indication of a high interest level but not just friendly touching?

If so, should i just touch her slightly on the arm when i meet her? but it wont it seem awkward to her the fact that i have never done this to her before?

touch tips please
one thing I started doing is putting my hand on a girls waist when I start a convo.

If someones near me Ill kino
 

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whoaa but thats so rude and inapropriate! waist? isnt that too far? they wont mind?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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War Against Betaism

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http://youtube.com/watch?v=Edh2GQHZmtI

Watch this video, it's divided into 10 segments (should have been 8 but I was unaware of youtubes video length policy). This is the first of 10.

This is one of my favorite DJ videos, it gives you a great insight on one of the most powerful weapons you can use for seduction, kino.
 

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yea i watched it before but its for much older woman
keep in mind that this is a high school forum for teens
 

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No, this video isn't exclusive to just older women. One of my friend's game is driven by almost kino alone and girls love him, and the kino that he uses is the same that are used in that video. He's also still in high school.

Besides, it teaches more than just techniques, it's more about belief and an overall education about the art of kino.
 

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The waist is a little awkward if you don't place your hands right. I say an excellent starting point is actually in the upper arm (think biceps and triceps). When you see a girl or start talking to her, just gently tap the side of her arm to start off with. It's a very non-threatening and unobtrusive way to initiate kino. Plus, it's a lot less scary if you're just starting kino.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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