"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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A potential dead end - how did I handle it?

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Here I go wondering something else..

For the sake of conversation, what would you reccomend doing if I had an interest in a more involved relationship with this girl (I don't)?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Update:

She came back from her vacation on Monday and I didn;t call her. Tonight, she cals me and says we should get together tomorrow afternoon (only time when she's free - this is the first time she's ever called ME). She also tells me she's going to a party tonight. I had to go and call her back.

When I call back, she tells me she can't give me directions to this party becuase she doesn't know streets. I say nothing and have to go again ( was at work).

I haven't called her back and pretty much blew her off tonight with that party.

When (if) I see her tomorrow, what do I do?
 

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- If a girl HAS TO TELL YOU: "I'm not an easy girl", she is lying and is only trying to convince HERSELF that she's not easy because she doesn't want you to think that she not the sl.ut that she really IS.

- you backed off any sexual advances, and ur actually believing that statement about her not being easy. You didn't read her, instead you LISTENED to her. That's why she wants you to be her friend. When you told her you agreed, that was a good and bad move. Good, because it probably made her thoughts of ur intentions change, bad because she knows that ur after the pussi, yet when she throws this BS in ur direction- you 2nd her on it, she probably thought you were being too "nice" and maybe even wondered "Why isn't this guy being a man? Please try SOMETHING" She thought you were playing "hard to get" probably, maybe even too well, and that's bad, too. You should've put her in her place. She's leading you on, like she really forgot to tell you anything "I think we should just be friends" All BS!!

- Ok. Now, she's laying on you? She REALLY wants you to bring out the closet bytch she is, but you were being too nice again. Yea, she wants to be friend alright: FVCK FRIENDS!

- Yea, she knows guys are after one thing, but she probably thinks you're below the average joe because you're not after that one thing. She is str8 up flaunting and taunting you. She's LAYING on you; she's a tease, take her nature! She's telling you "it won't work out" because ur taking too long. Fvck her like a slvut and if she feels bad, tell her you still respect her. HAHAHA!!

- She's continually saying "I'm not easy for sex" because she's trying REALLY hard to convince herself. An uneasy girl wouldn't have to say this.
 
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