"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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A potential dead end - how did I handle it?

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Here I go wondering something else..

For the sake of conversation, what would you reccomend doing if I had an interest in a more involved relationship with this girl (I don't)?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Update:

She came back from her vacation on Monday and I didn;t call her. Tonight, she cals me and says we should get together tomorrow afternoon (only time when she's free - this is the first time she's ever called ME). She also tells me she's going to a party tonight. I had to go and call her back.

When I call back, she tells me she can't give me directions to this party becuase she doesn't know streets. I say nothing and have to go again ( was at work).

I haven't called her back and pretty much blew her off tonight with that party.

When (if) I see her tomorrow, what do I do?
 

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- If a girl HAS TO TELL YOU: "I'm not an easy girl", she is lying and is only trying to convince HERSELF that she's not easy because she doesn't want you to think that she not the sl.ut that she really IS.

- you backed off any sexual advances, and ur actually believing that statement about her not being easy. You didn't read her, instead you LISTENED to her. That's why she wants you to be her friend. When you told her you agreed, that was a good and bad move. Good, because it probably made her thoughts of ur intentions change, bad because she knows that ur after the pussi, yet when she throws this BS in ur direction- you 2nd her on it, she probably thought you were being too "nice" and maybe even wondered "Why isn't this guy being a man? Please try SOMETHING" She thought you were playing "hard to get" probably, maybe even too well, and that's bad, too. You should've put her in her place. She's leading you on, like she really forgot to tell you anything "I think we should just be friends" All BS!!

- Ok. Now, she's laying on you? She REALLY wants you to bring out the closet bytch she is, but you were being too nice again. Yea, she wants to be friend alright: FVCK FRIENDS!

- Yea, she knows guys are after one thing, but she probably thinks you're below the average joe because you're not after that one thing. She is str8 up flaunting and taunting you. She's LAYING on you; she's a tease, take her nature! She's telling you "it won't work out" because ur taking too long. Fvck her like a slvut and if she feels bad, tell her you still respect her. HAHAHA!!

- She's continually saying "I'm not easy for sex" because she's trying REALLY hard to convince herself. An uneasy girl wouldn't have to say this.
 
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