"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
A potential dead end - how did I handle it?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
TurboLover
Senior Don Juan
Three words. GUNWITCH
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=46286
Let us know how it was.
She came back from her vacation on Monday and I didn;t call her. Tonight, she cals me and says we should get together tomorrow afternoon (only time when she's free - this is the first time she's ever called ME). She also tells me she's going to a party tonight. I had to go and call her back.
When I call back, she tells me she can't give me directions to this party becuase she doesn't know streets. I say nothing and have to go again ( was at work).
I haven't called her back and pretty much blew her off tonight with that party.
When (if) I see her tomorrow, what do I do?
the_great_gaia
Senior Don Juan
- you backed off any sexual advances, and ur actually believing that statement about her not being easy. You didn't read her, instead you LISTENED to her. That's why she wants you to be her friend. When you told her you agreed, that was a good and bad move. Good, because it probably made her thoughts of ur intentions change, bad because she knows that ur after the pussi, yet when she throws this BS in ur direction- you 2nd her on it, she probably thought you were being too "nice" and maybe even wondered "Why isn't this guy being a man? Please try SOMETHING" She thought you were playing "hard to get" probably, maybe even too well, and that's bad, too. You should've put her in her place. She's leading you on, like she really forgot to tell you anything "I think we should just be friends" All BS!!
- Ok. Now, she's laying on you? She REALLY wants you to bring out the closet bytch she is, but you were being too nice again. Yea, she wants to be friend alright: FVCK FRIENDS!
- Yea, she knows guys are after one thing, but she probably thinks you're below the average joe because you're not after that one thing. She is str8 up flaunting and taunting you. She's LAYING on you; she's a tease, take her nature! She's telling you "it won't work out" because ur taking too long. Fvck her like a slvut and if she feels bad, tell her you still respect her. HAHAHA!!
- She's continually saying "I'm not easy for sex" because she's trying REALLY hard to convince herself. An uneasy girl wouldn't have to say this.