"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
A potential dead end - how did I handle it?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
TurboLover
Senior Don Juan
Three words. GUNWITCH
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=46286
Let us know how it was.
She came back from her vacation on Monday and I didn;t call her. Tonight, she cals me and says we should get together tomorrow afternoon (only time when she's free - this is the first time she's ever called ME). She also tells me she's going to a party tonight. I had to go and call her back.
When I call back, she tells me she can't give me directions to this party becuase she doesn't know streets. I say nothing and have to go again ( was at work).
I haven't called her back and pretty much blew her off tonight with that party.
When (if) I see her tomorrow, what do I do?
the_great_gaia
Senior Don Juan
- you backed off any sexual advances, and ur actually believing that statement about her not being easy. You didn't read her, instead you LISTENED to her. That's why she wants you to be her friend. When you told her you agreed, that was a good and bad move. Good, because it probably made her thoughts of ur intentions change, bad because she knows that ur after the pussi, yet when she throws this BS in ur direction- you 2nd her on it, she probably thought you were being too "nice" and maybe even wondered "Why isn't this guy being a man? Please try SOMETHING" She thought you were playing "hard to get" probably, maybe even too well, and that's bad, too. You should've put her in her place. She's leading you on, like she really forgot to tell you anything "I think we should just be friends" All BS!!
- Ok. Now, she's laying on you? She REALLY wants you to bring out the closet bytch she is, but you were being too nice again. Yea, she wants to be friend alright: FVCK FRIENDS!
- Yea, she knows guys are after one thing, but she probably thinks you're below the average joe because you're not after that one thing. She is str8 up flaunting and taunting you. She's LAYING on you; she's a tease, take her nature! She's telling you "it won't work out" because ur taking too long. Fvck her like a slvut and if she feels bad, tell her you still respect her. HAHAHA!!
- She's continually saying "I'm not easy for sex" because she's trying REALLY hard to convince herself. An uneasy girl wouldn't have to say this.