"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A party: many men, two girl (mine included)

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nvictor

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DJs,

Our department manager is organizing a party. Only
two girls are coming. My target included, well she's
the manager's secretary assistant.

My first problem: I don't dance. I'm learning but slowly.
Second problem: most co-workers are after my target.
The occasion is offered.

What do I deal with the situation?
I told her this morning: "If party there is, I'll show you
a separate place, where we will have more fun..."

She seems to agree. She doesn't like the idea of being
touched by all the department boys. But also care about
what others will think about that.

Help me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Holland

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Ask her out for a drink some other time.
And don't go to the party.
WTF, are you stupid or something?
 
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Go to the party...and act cool. No needy. Talk with all the guys (and both girls)...but don't talk ABOUT her. This is an oportunity to show how you deal among other guys.

It is a company party after all.

Now...if you manage to get her NOT to go to the party and go somewhere with you...even better.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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