A party: many men, two girl (mine included)

[nvictor]

DJs,

Our department manager is organizing a party. Only
two girls are coming. My target included, well she's
the manager's secretary assistant.

My first problem: I don't dance. I'm learning but slowly.
Second problem: most co-workers are after my target.
The occasion is offered.

What do I deal with the situation?
I told her this morning: "If party there is, I'll show you
a separate place, where we will have more fun..."

She seems to agree. She doesn't like the idea of being
touched by all the department boys. But also care about
what others will think about that.

Help me.

 

[mrRuckus]

don't go

 

[nvictor]

Clear. I won't go.

 

[Holland]

Ask her out for a drink some other time.
And don't go to the party.
WTF, are you stupid or something?

 

[Latinoman]

Go to the party...and act cool. No needy. Talk with all the guys (and both girls)...but don't talk ABOUT her. This is an oportunity to show how you deal among other guys.

It is a company party after all.

Now...if you manage to get her NOT to go to the party and go somewhere with you...even better.